Warning of disobeying parents and rupture of the uterus

Warning of disobeying parents and rupture of the uterus


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Praise be to Allah alone, and peace and blessings be upon the Prophet after him , and after: It phenomena bad what we see these days from many of the sons of disobedience to parents, and what we see among relatives of estrangement , the following words quick to warn against disobedience to parents and encourage honoring them , and warning rupture of the uterus and the statement of Arts , which should be taken into account with relatives, ask God to benefit .

First: disobedience to parents warning and urging honoring

Of Photo Impiousness :
1 - Apka of parents and Thuzeinhma the word or deed .
2 - Nehrhma and Zgerhma , raising one's voice on them .
3 - التأفف from أوامرهما .
4 - pout and stitched forehead before them , and consider them askance .
5 - order them.
6 - to criticize the food prepared by the mother .
7 - left to listen to their conversation .
8 - condemn the parents in front of people .
9 - Stmanma .
10 - raise problems before them either with the brothers , or with the wife .
11 - tarnish reputations .
12 - Enter the evils of the house , or engage in evil before them.
13 - staying a long time outside the home, with parents and do not need their permission for the child to get out .
14 - Provide wife 's obedience to them .
15 - infringement of them beaten.
16 - placed hospices .
17 - wishing Swalhma .
18 - were killed by God forbid .
19 - avarice and gratitude upon them , and hands census .
20 - frequent complaint and whining either parent.

Literature that should be taken into account with the parents :
1 - obey them kindly , and treat them kindly , and lowering the wing for them.
2 - joy Boamrama the , human مقابلتهما and welcoming.
3 - Mpadothma the peace and kissing hands and Rashma the .
4 - Expansion are on the board and sit , politely before them and respect , and by modifying the meeting , and the dimension of chuckling before them , striptease , or الاضطجاع , or D - man , or engage in evil before them , and so on , which is contrary to Kamal literature with them.
5 - assist them in their business.
6 - meet rapidly ندائهما .
7 - distance from Azaaajhma , and avoid quarreling and stir controversy Bhoudrthma .
8 - to walk in front of night and behind them during the day .
9 - not reaching out for food before them .
10 - Reconciliation If rotted between the parents .
11 - authorization on them if access to them, or if out of the house .
12 - reminding them of God, and their education what Ejehlana , and commanded them kindly , and Nhiama evil taking into account the kindness and compassion and patience .
13 - maintain reputations and that sense of biography , and integrity , and the dimension of the citizen insecurities and bad company .
14 - Avoid Overnmma the , Tqureihma and taunting them .
15 - Work on what يسرهما and was not يأمرا .
16 - understand the nature of the parents, and treated so appropriate .
17 - Frequent pray and ask God for forgiveness for them in life and after death .

Specific things on the mainland :
1 - the use of God .
2 - evoke the virtues of righteousness, and the consequences of disobedience .
3 - evoke the preferred parent.
4 - Trying to reconcile between parents and wife.
5 - piety in the case of divorce , and to recommend that each and every one of the other parents' sons paper , so everyone Ebra .
6 - reading the biography of Albaran parents.
7 - to lay the boy 's parents' position .

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Second: a rupture of the uterus - Causes - Remedy

* Uterus are kinship, and rupture of the uterus abandonment , قطعهم of .
The link against rupture , a metaphor for the charity to relatives, and their welfare , and care for their condition.

Rupture of the uterus reasons :
1 - ignorance
2 - Lack of Piety
3 - Caper
4 - long outage that causes loneliness and oblivion
5 - severe admonition from some relatives causing Nafrah to him
6 - affectation overload , making relatives are not keen to come to that person, do not even located in embarrassment.
7 - lack of attention to visitors from relatives
8 - stinginess and greed of some people , who expanded upon in the world , so they do not continue to relatives , so as not to lose because of them a bit of money, either on his borrowing or otherwise.
9 - Delay dividing the inheritance among relatives .
10 - Partnership based on comity between relatives.
11 - engage in this world .
12 - Divorce among relatives .
13 - distance and lazing on the visit.
14 - Lack of carrying relatives.
15 - envy among themselves
16 - forgotten in the banquet , causing mistrust among them.
17 - Frequent joke.
18 - snitching and listen to them .

The virtues of kinship
1 - kinship logo faith in God, and the other day .
2 - a reason for increasing age, and the extension of livelihood .
3 - bring God to link continued .
4 - is one of the greatest reasons for entering Paradise .
5 - is one of the beauties of Islam .
6 - It was first agreed upon laws
7 - is evidence of the generosity of self , and imagination .
8 - a reason for the prevalence of love, and the interrelationship between relatives.
9 - which raises the value of connecting .
10 - kinship outlive home .
11 - and facilitates the calculation.
12 - and expiate guilt and sin .
13 - and pay a bad death .

Arts and things that should be their behavior with relatives :
1 - evoke the preferred link , and the ugliness of estrangement.
2 - the use of God on the link .
3 - self- localization and training on patience on relatives and dream of them .
4 - accept excuses if you made ​​a mistake and apologized .
5 - pardon them and forget Maibhm though did not apologize .
6 - humility and soft side to them .
7 - to make possible for them to self - service and prestige and money.
8 - leave to God to them, and away from demands for reciprocity .
9 - settling for less of them.
10 - taking into account their circumstances , and know طبائعهم , and treated in accordance with it .
11 - ride down their homes .
12 - leave them affectation , and to relieve them
13 - avoid distress in Matpthm if Ibtoa .
14 - carry Atabhm the If Atbwa , and get him to the best of bearings.
15 - joking with them in moderation .
16 - avoid strife , frequent Almlahah the aseptic and debate with them.
17 - the gift Initiative The Event disagreement with them .
18 - to remember that human relatives weft it must have them , do not escape him about them.
19 - to know that hostility evil, Valrabh in the anti relatives loser , victor and vanquished .
20 - careful not to forget one of them in the banquet as much as possible .
21 - Trying to repair the fences if spoiled.
22 - to accelerate the apportionment of inheritance.
23 - periodic meetings .
24 - Formation of a fund for the family.
25 - Ensure harmony and if the partnership agreement .
26 - take into account that to be relevant to God alone , and to be cooperating in righteousness and piety , and is not intended to ignorance diet first.

May Allah bless our Prophet Muhammad and upon his family and companions