Incest (in English: incest) is any full sexual relationship between two people linked by nearly prevent the sexual relationship between them

Incest
Incest (in English: incest) is any full sexual relationship between two people linked by nearly prevent the sexual relationship between them, according to cultural or religious standards, and this is the relationship between the mother's husband and his step-daughter illicit relationship despite the absence of the Association of blood between them,
Patterns incest
The most common patterns is a father's relationship with his daughter as an 75% [what?] Cases that have been reported and other patterns:
Pattern associated with conditions
It happens between a brother and sister slept in one bed or in a room and one physically Fikterban more than necessary, especially in the pre-puberty and adulthood.
Style, combined with severe disorder patients
If a parties Sikobatia or alcohol addict, suffering from schizophrenia or any other psychotic disorders.
Pattern resulting from the love of children
Or boys. (Pedophilia)
Pattern resulting from the patriarchal model of turbulent
Where to watch the boy his father do it or knows that do Viqms or imitate.
Pattern resulting from the disruption of the marital relationship
, Rejected the wife's sexual relationship can be searched by the pair is replaced by (a mahram).
Pattern resulting from the severe pathological disorder in family relations
So that these relationships torn including not sense any given sanctity in any relationship.
It has been found that one-third of signed them sexual assaults were under the age of nine years of age, and that more cases were monitored were in the most crowded and poorest and lowest in the social levels, and this increase may be true because of contiguity physical in these environments crowded or be due to the presence of These categories under the microscope of social organizations and research more than richer environments or higher social classes and that can happen where incest in silence and away from the monitor legal and research agencies.
It is important that there are social factors and psychological factors and biological factors play a role in breaking the taboo sexual Vinfelt this activity and moving trends unacceptable religious or cultural. We won incest clearly linked to alcohol and drug addiction, and Overcrowding, families isolated from society (or internal relations clearly), and psychologically disturbed persons or the mentally retarded.
The initiative often comes from older males toward children (male or female) is here an overlap between incest and rape (sexual intercourse against the wishes of the victim), though this does not preclude the presence of seduction of females or children sometimes.
And can monitor three basic patterns in cases of incest is based on feelings resulting from this behavior as follows:
Angry style
Where there is anger of the victim to the offender, and this happens when the victim has completely forced to act without it to have any ability to make choices, resistance or rejection, hence bearing the victim's feelings of anger and desire for revenge against the offender. Perhaps circulate anger toward all members of the genus offender, therefore fail in its relationship with her husband and alienated from the sexual relationship and everything that surrounds them, and become a state of frigidity may be trying to overcome or out of indulging in multiple sexual relationships, or they learn to control the men are from During this becomes a sexual relationship with a man sort of usurp his power and ability, and even control it and robbed his money. Studies have shown that 37% of prostitutes were prey to incest, and this shows the relationship between this and that
Sad pattern
In this case, we find that the victim feels responsible for what happened, either initiates him or not to reject, or not show resistance required, or they tried to take advantage of this situation to get gifts and money or that occupy a special place in the family by acquiring a father or older brother, Here, you feel guilty and go aggression towards themselves, and perhaps the attempts to self-harm if the cause wounds or خدوشا in different parts of her body, or trying to commit suicide from time to time or at least wish for death, and they have severe hatred for herself.
Almokhttaiwfah pattern mixed feelings of sadness with anger.
Magnitude of the phenomenon
It was found that more accurately in the research conducted by the Institute Unicri, based in Rome for victims of crime and included 36 countries, including Arab countries, which was published summarized in the international report issued by the Institute in 1991, where he was conducting interviews with females representing all of them family, show answers to 10% of the total sample had experienced incest (Ahmad Hidayat 2003, incest, MM library, pp. 169, 170). though this deserves scientific research auditors. Perhaps argue that the ratio may exceed that as many cases reluctant to disclose what happened, and this is true, and therefore be required careful when we talk about percentages and numbers belonging to issue such incest in our communities, in particular, however, remains ratios estimated useful approximation magnitude of the phenomenon of our minds relative makes us deal with it the attention it deserves.
Causes of the phenomenon
The first reason: relapse instinct
And talk about relapse instinct and domain-wide, it is the most important factors relapse the instinct Hiktherh sins and sins.
Stated Qayyim in the book answer enough for those who asked for a panacea from the effects of sin and sin (well known that sin and guilt blinds insight heart not realize right should also Fodrick falsehood really the right void and known evil and evil known) and mentioned in the effects of sin and sins (including: monster heart, Fimsch as denaturation's, Faiser heart to the heart of the animal that analogous in morals and work and nature, it is hearts what Amsch the pig heart to the severity of semi-owner do, including what Amsch to create a dog or a donkey or live or scorpion, etc.) a. Hubble may be the animal gave him a way
As God created human Almighty on instinct as the Prophet peace be upon him (only births born on instinct Vabuah Ehudana or a Christian or Imjdzisanh also produces the whole beast beast Do Thson Jdaa
Shaykh al-Albaani: (correctly) see talk Number: 5784 in true Gamekzlk make the animal instinct alienated nature of Mkhafatthow have said strange story Haddttan man had skilled Belle bore him a horse nice and after that size Persians wanted continued Alslalhveredua that Wenzhou Persians on his mother refused and whenever they tried to look Persians to his mother Faarafha attributable to back and refuses this Alflhvlm find the only to cover his mother so he does not know and did not leave only anal intercourse Mkhovao after that signed revealed the cover looked to his mother knew it what was the Persians, but he money mentioned Vqdmhvhma animal had a share of the instinct more economical than those who find themselves on the Mharmanmo of the greatest sins that to achieve this is to raise human instinct, even if strengthened and persisted swept insight did not differentiate between women and foreign mother or Ochtho including:
1 - frequent launch of sight
2 - listen to the songs, the singing as Ibn Mas'ood, may Allah be pleased with him is: (Paper adultery) People have watched: that the boy suffered only spoiled woman only Bgt
3 - Show nudity and immorality in Altlevaz screens making it easier for rights Elf epidemic and reflection in the exercise.
The second reason: Woman showing her nakedness in front of incest
And for this reason overlooked by many people Many think that there is no limit to the rugged woman in front of her mahrams.
Roughness women before mahrams father, brother and nephew is her entire body except what usually appears such as the face, hair and neck, arms and feet, God said: (not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands or fathers or fathers their husbands or sons or sons their husbands, brothers or sons, or between sisters or their women) light / 31.
God has permitted for a woman to show her adornments before her husband (her husband) and mahrams, and Decorative meant their position, Valkhatem position to stop, and the bracelet is the forearm, and earring is the ear, and the necklace is the neck and chest, and leg anklet.
Abu Bakr said Jassaas God's mercy in his interpretation: "The phenomenon requires legalization showing the adornment of the husband and those who mentioned him from parents and others, and is known to be the subject of ornamental namely the face, hand and arm ....., فاقتضى it permissible to look for are mentioned in the verse to these positions, which positions hidden adornments; because it singled out in the first verse permissible decorations phenomenon for foreign, and permitted the husband and incest to look at hidden adornments. narrated from Ibn Mas'ood and Zubair: earrings, necklaces, bracelets and anklets ...
- Some girls mistake in wearing narrow pants or cured and describes awrah thinking that may wear it at home in front of incest which leads to the desires, which in turn leads to the corrupting bang.
The third reason: tight housing and mixing in their beds
The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and Slmerba of happiness: a righteous and spacious home and good neighbor and a comfortable mount and four of misery: a bad, bad neighbor and a bad mount and a small house.
Shaykh al-Albaani said: (correctly) see interview: 887 correctly Gamau of the afflicted Muslims in this time of poverty and narrow Almsknfdik housing causing much friction and is much potential exposure of genitals and difficulty reservation.
This crowding in housing of factors encouraging incest that 30% of Egyptian families live in one room, and a lot of families still - so far - used toilets shared between multiple rooms "which weakens the feeling modesty among its inhabitants, as a result accustomed View each other in an exciting situation.
As the sleep it runs the risk of exposure of genitals, and the eruption of lust came full Sharia antiseptic thing differentiating between boys in their beds. As narrated by Abu Dawood (418) from Amr ibn Shuaib from his father and grandfather told The Messenger God's peace be upon him Teach your children to pray when they are seven years old and hit them when they are ten, and separate them in their beds)
And Roy Daaraqutni and ruling for Sabrah Ben Temple that the Prophet peace be upon him said: (If hit your children, seven years Vvrkoa their beds and if attained ten years Vadharbohem to prayer) and talking horses in the "Whole true" number 418 has been interpreted by scholars to differentiate in their beds two things :
First: to differentiate between their beds, and this is the second apparent talk.
Second: Do not sleep naked on the bed and one, the Nama Buthaiabhma is adjacent Jazz when fitnah.
He said in "Qinaa" (5/18): "(If the siblings ten years whether they are male or female, or female and male teams and matter them in their beds and give each one of them a bed alone) for saying peace be upon him: (and separate them in their beds ) where they were sleeping naked, as in the container and care "ended
And it too difficult and requires patience in setting limits between individuals with small house parental فيحرص, to put jackets on mattresses that the boys sleep and that was only at bedtime in order to cover the 'awrah if exposed during sleep and also keen to know that children should be covering the awrah and its borders, especially during change of clothes Some careless in not belittle small mountains of gravel.
The fourth reason spinsterhood
And intended spinsterhood is delayed marriage for both men and Alencavkd reported statistics that nine million young men and women spinsters in Egypt have crossed the barrier fifth and thirty and 264 thousand divorces annually * and a million and a half spinsters in Saudi Arabia * and 48% divorce rate in the UAE and 46% in Kuwait 35 % and 34% in Bahrain and 38% in Qtro This means that the young man or woman living Neva and twenty years insatiable desire sexual way that has permitted Allhvhzh instinct which knees God within human if not placed in Allah has permitted Taalyo placed in God has forbidden and must.
- And comes expensive dowries and the high cost of marriage among the top causes of spinsterhood
The Messenger of Allah, may Allah bless him and was Slmama, who came from happy with his creation and his religion then marry that do not do not oppression in the earth, and a broad corruption.
Shaykh al-Albaani said: (Hassan) See interview No.: 270 in true Gamafoa sedition and corruption worse than today's.
And if we compare our situation today in no prophet, God bless them, see what was one of them marry the Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, including him from the Koran and what he had from the wreckage of the world something.
What the fathers and mothers that fear God in their children, Bntahm and should Aavohm from sin and fall into the taboo.
Fifth reason: lack of awareness of religious communities
And this is one of the most important reasons which must be noted, Families shed Altlevaz of putting him pornographic movies and serials abrasive subversive of morality and religious values ​​are the most susceptible to this problem
And this because of repeated scenes relations adultery and homosexuality throughout the night and day Fam modesty of individuals and mention this to think about it and practice
Also of the downsides of the absence of religious consciousness: falling into drug addiction and alcohol, noted statistics in the study included 170 people who committed incest found that 38% were addicted and that 15% drank alcohol and there is also a drug, says Dr. Hidayat "in incest often The culprit is why addiction victim of drug taking the means of making them ripe for entry in the relationship with minimal rejection and resistance, "and this is confirmed by the story cited Majdoub for mother traveled her husband abroad, pushed her son to heroin addiction, then Sawmth to sleep with her.
Incest rule in Islam
Ibn al-Qayyim God's mercy for intercourse mother, daughter, sister: "the Nafrah natural with him in full, with that limit its crudest border in a two views is murder anyway whether the person is married or not, and this is one of two versions of Imam Ahmad, a Ishaaq ibn Raahawayh and a group of people talking. Abu Dawood narrated from al-Bara bin celibate said: I met and blindness with the flag and I said to him: Where do you want? sent me to the Messenger of Allah said to a man fuck a woman his father after him to smite his neck and take his money. " [Horses in Irwa (2351)].
The Muslims are agreed that the same weight of Muharram, he has to reduce, but differed in the character limit is the murder of all the event or alone extent adulterer? There are two views, Shafi'i and Maalik and Ahmad One Roaite that alone extent adulterer, and went Ahmed, Isaac and a group of people to talk to that alone murder Whatever the case, "finished" adequate answer "Y (270) short.
Shaykh Ibn Uthaymeen say kill an adulterer in the same forbidden in all cases.
It is plagued with some فليبادر repent to God, repent from every sin is valid no matter how great, he says: (Did you know that Allah accepts repentance from His slaves and takes the alms, and that Allah is Merciful) repentance / 104.
The Almighty said: (and those who invoke not with Allah another god, nor kill the soul which Allah has forbidden except by right not commit adultery and whoever does this shall receive the punishment be doubled to him torment the Day of Resurrection and he will abide therein in disgrace only repent and believe and do righteous deeds will change God into good ones and Allah is Oft ) Criterion / 68 - 70. The Almighty said: (and I am indeed forgiving to those who repent and believe and work righteousness, and meaning) / 82, and in this verse guidance that repentant he should do a lot of good deeds, and that exhibits the path of guidance, and keep away from the causes of seduction.
Cofactors
Moral factors
Weakness of the moral order within the family, or the language of psychology weak superego (conscience) in some or all of the family members. In this family, we find some of the phenomena, including habitual members, especially women and girls to wear revealing clothes or pornographic in front of the rest of the family members, as well as accustomed interaction physical in daily transactions is a plus than usual, with the absence of borders and barriers between the sexes, and the absence of privacy and intrusion closed rooms without permission . In these families, we find that there was a lack of parental authority of the father or mother, or both, and this leads to the collapse of the power to discipline and the breakdown of law prisoners in general.
Economic factors
Such as poverty and the accumulation of the family in one room or in the narrow space which makes sexual relations between parents are listening, and sometimes at the sight of sons and daughters, in addition to Mecheah poverty deprived of many basic needs that may be compensated sexually within the family. And the attendant poverty situation of unemployment and delayed age of marriage, and a sense of unhappiness and misery which makes adherence to moral laws in the weakest cases. If we know - through the report of the Central Agency for Public Mobilization and Statistics - that 30% of households in Egypt are staying in one room with an average number of seven, we have to imagine what could happen between these individuals who no them male and there are females.
Psychological factors
If a family member suffering from mental illness such as schizophrenia or bipolar disorder or personal, or mental retardation, or organic brain injury.
Media: What يبثه day and night of materials ignite sexual arousal in a society suffering from deprivation on multiple levels
Addiction: The abuse of alcohol and drugs of the strongest factors leading to incest, where these substances lead to a state of awareness of the disorder, the moral and ethical balance so easy with violation of privacy.
Psychological and social effects
Try researchers are Adam and Neil (1967) to study the This is biologically pure puppeteers trackers case 18 children were the fruit of marriage tissues they found that five of them have died, and five others suffer from mental retardation and one infected cleaving in the lip and palate, which is alarming, especially if We knew that the birth defects in the general misfits about 2% mostly be subtle defects.
So These authors concluded that incest if it spread could lead to the end of human existence altogether, and maybe this is part of the religious wisdom of prohibition and criminalization of legal and social stigma.
Overlapping roles and discomfiture as mentioned above with the resulting devastating negative feelings for each family relationships Kagheirh, conflict and hatred, contempt and anger .. We can imagine a little girl expects love innocent and caressing thin net of a father or an older brother or uncle or uncle or others, when speaking sexual practices they face unusual hit it with fear and doubt and uncertainty and confusion, and shake in the same constants, and it sees itself and to others look doubt and hatred, and deeply about the offender's feelings contradictory makes torn from within, they hand you love cap or brother or free or uncle, and this love instinctive it originated, on the other hand discover sooner or later that it does something strange or embarrassing or shameful, especially if asked including the failure to disclose what happened or threatened to hit or kill her if she spoke. These feelings often evolve into a state of depression, isolation and aggression toward self and toward the other (the offender and other men), and may be trying victim to mitigate the sense of shame and disgrace using drugs or indulging in sexual practices communal exaggeration in revenge for herself and the offender (and therefore polluting the reputation especially if a father or a brother larger).
Vibration constants: the sense vibration meaning of paternity and maternity and paternity and brothers and cousins ​​and Alkhalh, those meanings that constitute human consciousness proper and correct form the conscience
The difficulty of establishing romantic relationships or sexual together where they remain anniversary relationship is normal and extensions affecting perception stimuli emotional and sexual, meaning that it would be the victim (very) negative feelings (mostly) or contradictory (sometimes) towards topics emotional and sexual, and this makes is establish another relationship outside the circle of the prohibition is Mahuta doubts and difficulties. Or remain a party to the forbidden relationship prisoners of that relationship is not originally think about healthy relationships alternative.
Adjustment disorder: where disturbed image of the relationship between the two people and deform Vtptad that relationship between brother and sister or between father and daughter and replaced relations marred by inconsistency and volatility and leave it in the soul deep wounds.


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