Honouring one's parents Road to paradise

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Recommended God kindness to parents all of us, and a century this بعبادته and forbidding the involvement of it; to demonstrate the greatness, and his place in religion, and is also thanks to them and land them, and that of gratitude : ( Worship Allah and join none with Him and parents charity ) [women: 36 ] .
Ibn Abbas, may Allah be pleased with him : "He wants to land them with kindness and soft side , there is thickening for them in the answer, does not limit consideration to them , does not raise his voice to them, but will have their hands like a slave in the hands of Mr. Tzlla for two ."
The Almighty said : (And your Lord has decreed that you worship none but Him and parents kindness either they reach you have old age , one or both , do not say to them disrespect, nor تنهرهما say to them a word of crema * And lower to them the wing of submission and humility through mercy, and say the Lord has decreed that you worship none small ) [ Al-Isra : 23, 24] .
See dear reader Karim how linking context Quranic honoring one's parents worship of God , a declaration of the value of this land with God, and these words, equality and images suggestive Istjeic Koran and the conscience of righteousness and mercy in the hearts of children toward parents , toward the generation outgoing , which absorbs children from all nectar and all wellness , and all Interestingly, if the two aging transient The term Omhlhma and two with that Saidane .
( And lower to them the wing of submission and humility through mercy ) ( Isra : verse 24)
Transparent euphemism of شغاف hearts and Hanaaa of conscience. They compassion : paper and soothing even as a humiliation which does not raise our consciousness , not refuse an order , is any reward for good other than good ? ! .
These are the parents How much Atrak the desires for oneself, even by Jesus LGBT them in solitary , lives have remnants sun , I Raiak long Varahma short and say the Lord has decreed that you worship none small ).
How many months you to the night dawn , Ydariank the polite beau in the abandonment , the sick conducted tears have not been , did Arzia you non- stop and stone beds , say Lord has decreed that you worship none small ).
Treated Onjaask and loved you stay , even received them harm I complained Hqak , the km Jraak of sweet and bitter Jrathma , Let honoring Tashma not say: ( Lord has decreed that you worship none small ).


What Viha the reward :
A man said to Omar ibn al-Khattab : "I have either reached such arrogance , they do not eliminate need only and dorsal her a ride (ie it carried to a place defecating ) Is performed right ? Omar said : No; because they were made back in the hopes you stay , and you do and wish to leave her . "

Saw Abdullah bin Omar a Imania man roams the house may carry his mother on the back says :
I have بعيرها Almzll .. ... .. The passengers Ozart not Ozar
Allah is my Lord with greater glory
Campaign , which carried more .. .. .. Do you see Jazetha O Ibn 'Umar ?
Ibn Umar said : No, nor Bzfrh one .
Yes Fu God , if children spent what was left of life in the service of what parents have performed their rights , he said the Prophet , peace be upon him : " Do not reward parents born only to find him owned Victre the Viatgah ."

A great mother's right : your mother right if I had known large كثيرك Oh this has walking
How to night has become Bthaglk of complaining about her than جواها he and exhalation
In the situation if unknowingly them how much hardship Gss including Fouad fly
How about you harm Piminha the washed and lap unless you have a bed
And Tfdak which Tstkih drinking herself and her nipples have Namir
How famished time and gave you strength حنوا and small إشفاقا and you
Vdiatha of what foolishness Ascent and longer you have it , a short
Mouth the one who fancy mind and follows AHA heart , a blind seer
Vdonk Fargb in Amim دعائها you as called for poor

When this was intact , Shara urged to increase honor her , and the right care , ( And We have enjoined man to his parents his mother here on and are فصاله in two years to thank me and your parents to self - determination ) [ Luqman : 14].
The man came to the Lord the righteous pure said : "It is most deserving of my good companionship? Said: your mother. Said : Then who? Said: your mother. Said : Then who? Said: your mother. Said : Then who? Said: Then your father ." [Reported Bukhari and Muslim from Abu Hurayrah ] .
Paradise is under the feet of the parents
Of God honored the lives of one or both parents has opened his door to heaven , he said the Prophet , peace be upon him : " Father Middle doors of paradise ..".
The man came to the Prophet , peace be upon him , said : O Messenger of Allah ! I wanted the invasion has come أستشيرك ? He said: Are you a mother ? He said: Yes . Said : Valzimha , Paradise is under her feet . " [ Reported by Ahmad and others ] .
As the Prophet peace be upon him one day: "I entered Paradise and I heard a reading I said : Who is this? Told: Haritha bin al - Nu'man , I said Kzlkm , righteousness , Kzlkm of righteousness ." The Haritha Apr people with his mother .


Penalty of sex work :

Some parents complain about cruelty sons and عقوقهم , and the right to the penalty of sex work is righteousness, and his parents Scales, his sons , and contract and his parents عقه his sons must . , If you want to Abarak sons Be Parra your parents , said the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him : " بروا fathers Tbarakm sons . . . "
And look at the Hebron Abraham while politeness with his father and soothing in his call Vkabl father of this literature with the utmost cruelty, what was Abraham , but he said: ( peace you Sastghafr you Lord that he was my حفيا ) (Maryam : verse 47) , was the reward of sex work, living God and a good boy , Ismail, who politeness with him while I know it is a heart , he said: ( O my father , do what you 're told ) ( Saffat : verse 102 )
Then another gesture should pay attention to their children is that they will not find a character who is merciful to their parents , no wife , no children, no friends, and to you this the poetry that Ntrechs story in its proceeds because of the sublime meanings :

Enticed Imru the boy ignorant بنقوده the day in order to obtain Aloutr
Said bring me Fouad , mother , boy and you gems and pearls Dirhams
He went away and أغرز a dagger in the chest and heart directed and came back on the track
But the excess its heart Hui Vtdhrj the speed section as found
Called him the heart of a mother Ml and I have a darling Do befalls you from harm ?
As though this sound despite compassion wrath of heaven on the boy had poured
Vdry terrible crime did not Egnha Born else since human history
فارتد to wash it , including heart overflowed his eyes torrent lessons
He says : My heart avenged me not forgive the unforgivable crimes
And drew his dagger to stab his heart stabbed to death remains a lesson to those who considered
Called him mother 's heart : the palm of a hand and do not stab my heart twice on the trail

Barhamha after their deaths :

And righteousness stands with them in their lives , and ends Bmutema , but remain land rights to a son after the death of his parents who wanted good .. It is this:
1 - forgiveness for them and pray : As said, peace be upon him , " When the son of Adam dies, his work except three: ongoing charity , beneficial knowledge , and Born pray for him ." [Muslim].
In the talk : " raise the dead after his death degrees. Says: O Lord ! Anything this ? Said: your child and ask forgiveness for you." [ Ahmad and Al - Bukhari in single literature . Said Busayri : attributed correctly , and may Albaani .

2 - charitable giving them : The man said to the Prophet peace be upon him : "My mother died Oanfha to give them charity ? Said : Yes . Said: me Mkhrva I أشهدك I have charity by them."

It was narrated from Abu acid - Saadi said: While we were sitting with the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him as the man came from Bani Salamah said: O Messenger of Allah! Is Time Bur parents thing Ibarhama after their deaths ? He said: Yes ; prayer to them, and pray for forgiveness for them, and enforce عهدهما from beyond , and kinship that only reach them, and honor their friend . " Poor mosque ] .
Therefore Muslim narrated in Saheeh Ibn Umar that when he went to Mecca was him donkey Atrouh a him if ml ride late and tightens the turban his head , Vinma is the ass on that day , as passed by Bedouin said : Are not 'm so ? He said : Yes . Gave him the ass, and said : Take this, and the turban and said: stress out of your head . Some of his companions said to him : God forgive you, given this Bedouin donkey you Trouh it , and a turban you pull it out of your head ? ! He said : I heard the Messenger of Allah said : "The from Apr land link man's people of Wad father after being given , although his father was friendlier to the age ."

Abu Burda said : I made the city Vattani Abdullah ibn Umar said: Do you know did أتيتك ? He said : I said : no. Said: I heard the Messenger of Allah peace be upon him : says: " I ​​would love to reach his father in his grave pray Brotherhood father after him, and he was among the Abu Omar and between APEC fraternity Wood, I wanted to out of it." [Narrated by Ibn Haban and horses] .
God blessed us and you honoring one 's parents

Warning of disobeying parents and rupture of the uterus

1 - back to remind parents when Salutation respect terms .
2 - combined consideration for parents , especially when the anger , and the nicest look compassionate Taybeh .
3 - Atemh the front of one of your parents , but next to him or behind him ... Literature and love for them.
4 - ( ( F ) ) self disobedience to parents ....... Vahdhirha .
5 - If you see one of your parents holds something in a campaign rushed him if in Mekdurk .. The help for them.
6 - If one of your parents addressed .. Vokhvd voice Atqatah and listened well until the end of his talk , and if you need to call on one of your parents do not raise your voice more than hear .. not duplicate the appeal of it except in cases of necessity .
7 - Take a peace If you entered the house or room on one of your parents .. and before them on their heads and if one of them threw you have peace capita it and see him hello .
8 - When eating with your parents to اتبدأ food before them , unless permission to do so .
9 - if it comes out a cock of the house for work or task , say to your mother ... ( ( God save my mother )) ... APEC ( ( God Oaadk us unscathed Dad )).
10 - If a parent you need to Club rushed Talbiyah the consent of the same if you 're busy with something Vastazn him to the completion of your job but did not authorize you do not complain .
11 - Invite God to parents , especially in prayer and remember that react goodness pleases God about you and cock فالزم .
12 - Show affection to your parents ... He expressed it to them and tried to enter Sroro them all like him you.
13 - to Atkther the requests of them and more thanks to what the Qama and they are doing for you and your brothers .
14 - If one Vlazemh sick as you can .. and on the service and follow-up treatment Wa keen to comfort and pray for his recovery .
15 - Save the secrets of your parents and no one -borne and if I heard them talk Alana individual to Atakbarhama even to not change Nfoshma the or تتكدر .
16 - أنانيتك make mistakes sometimes ... But faith and wisdom mind Tsaaadank on to apologize to two kept the name of the parents of insults ... That of semantics mainland .

Warning of disobeying parents and rupture of the uterus

Praise be to Allah alone, and peace and blessings be upon the Prophet after him , and after: It phenomena bad what we see these days from many of the sons of disobedience to parents, and what we see among relatives of estrangement , the following words quick to warn against disobedience to parents and encourage honoring them , and warning rupture of the uterus and the statement of Arts , which should be taken into account with relatives, ask God to benefit .

First: disobedience to parents warning and urging honoring : Photo Impiousness :
1 - Apka of parents and Thuzeinhma the word or deed .
2 - Nehrhma and Zgerhma , raising one's voice on them .
3 - التأفف from أوامرهما .
4 - pout and stitched forehead before them , and consider them askance .
5 - order them.
6 - to criticize the food prepared by the mother .
7 - left to listen to their conversation .
8 - condemn the parents in front of people .
9 - Stmanma .
10 - raise problems before them either with the brothers , or with the wife .
11 - tarnish reputations .
12 - Enter the evils of the house , or engage in evil before them.
13 - staying a long time outside the home, with parents and do not need their permission for the child to get out .
14 - Provide wife 's obedience to them .
15 - infringement of them beaten.
16 - placed hospices .
17 - wishing Swalhma .
18 - were killed by God forbid .
19 - avarice and gratitude upon them , and hands census .
20 - frequent complaint and whining either parent.

Literature that should be taken into account with the parents :
1. Obey them kindly , and treat them kindly , and lowering the wing for them.
2. Joy Boamrama the , human مقابلتهما and welcoming.
3. Mpadothma peace and kissing hands and Rashma the .
4. Expansion are on the board and sit , politely before them and respect , and by modifying the meeting , and the dimension of chuckling before them , striptease , or الاضطجاع , or D - man , or engage in evil before them , and so on , which is contrary to Kamal literature with them.
5. Assist them in their business.
6. Meet rapidly ندائهما .
7. Distance from Azaaajhma , and avoid quarreling and stir controversy Bhoudrthma .
8. The front of her at night and walks behind them during the day .
9. Not reaching out for food before them .
10. Reconciliation If rotted between the parents .
11. Authorization to them if the father *** them, or if out of the house .
12. Reminding them of God, and their education what Ejehlana , and commanded them kindly , and Nhiama evil taking into account the kindness and compassion and patience .
13. Maintain reputations and that sense of biography , and integrity , and the dimension of the citizen insecurities and bad company .
14. Avoid Overnmma and Tqureihma and taunting them .
15. Work on what يسرهما and was not يأمرا .
16. Understand the nature of the parents, and treated so appropriate .
17. Frequent , pray and ask God for forgiveness for them in life and after death .

Specific things on the mainland :
1 - the use of God .
2 - evoke the virtues of righteousness, and the consequences of disobedience .
3 - evoke the preferred parent.
4 - Trying to reconcile between parents and wife.
5 - piety in the case of divorce , and to recommend that each and every one of the other parents' sons paper , so everyone Ebra .
6 - reading the biography of Albaran parents.
7 - to lay the boy 's parents' position .

Second: a rupture of the uterus - Causes - Remedy
* Uterus are kinship, and rupture of the uterus abandonment , قطعهم of .
The link against rupture , a metaphor for the charity to relatives, and their welfare , and care for their condition.
Rupture of the uterus reasons :
1 - ignorance
2 - Lack of Piety
3 - Caper
4 - long outage that causes loneliness and oblivion
5 - severe admonition from some relatives causing Nafrah to him
6 - affectation overload , making relatives are not keen to come to that person, do not even located in embarrassment.
7 - lack of attention to visitors from relatives
8 - stinginess and greed of some people , who expanded upon in the world , so they do not continue to relatives , so as not to lose because of them a bit of money, either on his borrowing or otherwise.
9 - Delay dividing the inheritance among relatives .
10 - Partnership based on comity between relatives.
11 - engage in this world .
12 - Divorce among relatives .
13 - distance and lazing on the visit.
14 - Lack of carrying relatives.
15 - envy among themselves
16 - forgotten in the banquet , causing mistrust among them.
17 - Frequent joke.
18 - snitching and listen to them .

The virtues of kinship

1 - kinship logo faith in God, and the other day .
2 - a reason for increasing age, and the extension of livelihood .
3 - bring God to link continued .
4 - is one of the greatest causes of d *** paradise.
5 - is one of the beauties of Islam .
6 - It was first agreed upon laws
7 - is evidence of the generosity of self , and imagination .
8 - a reason for the prevalence of love, and the interrelationship between relatives.
9 - which raises the value of connecting .
10 - kinship outlive home .
11 - and facilitates the calculation.
12 - and expiate guilt and sin .
13 - and pay a bad death .

Arts and things that should be their behavior with relatives :

1 - evoke the preferred link , and the ugliness of estrangement.
2 - the use of God on the link .
3 - self- localization and training on patience on relatives and dream of them .
4 - accept excuses if you made ​​a mistake and apologized .
5 - pardon them and forget Maibhm though did not apologize .
6 - humility and soft side to them .
7 - to make possible for them to self - service and prestige and money.
8 - leave to God to them, and away from demands for reciprocity .
9 - settling for less of them.
10 - taking into account their circumstances , and know طبائعهم , and treated in accordance with it .
11 - ride down their homes .
12 - leave them affectation , and to relieve them
13 - avoid distress in Matpthm if Ibtoa .
14 - carry Atabhm the If Atbwa , and get him to the best of bearings.
15 - joking with them in moderation .
16 - avoid strife , frequent Almlahah the aseptic and debate with them.
17 - the gift Initiative The Event disagreement with them .
18 - to remember that human relatives weft it must have them , do not escape him about them.
19 - to know that hostility evil, Valrabh in the anti relatives loser , victor and vanquished .
20 - careful not to forget one of them in the banquet as much as possible .
21 - Trying to repair the fences if spoiled.
22 - to accelerate the apportionment of inheritance.
23 - periodic meetings .
24 - Formation of a fund for the family.
25 - Ensure harmony and if the partnership agreement .
26 - take into account that to be relevant to God alone , and to be cooperating in righteousness and piety , and is not intended to ignorance diet first.


Honouring one's parents

Emphasized God's commandment to parents in the book, and made ​​it the assets of righteousness, agreed by religions all, described God Yahya said: ( and land his parents , was not a monumental Hqia ) as well as the description of Jesus on his tongue in the bud : ( and land my mother did not make me mighty Hqia ) as well as The Quran Making it the righteousness of the parents after the worship of God alone after unification. . ( Worship Allah and join none with Him and parents charity ) ( to thank me and your parents ) ( and spent *** that you worship none but Him and parents charity ), especially the mother , they that carried the human unwillingly and placed unwillingly, and tired in the drive and tired in his position, and tired to breastfeed , therefore recommended by the Prophet three times, and the father once.

And the Koran make the parents really idolaters , said the names of the daughter of Abu Bakr , the Prophet peace be upon him : My mother visited me a idolatress , Avosalha ? Went down the words of God : ( God does not forbid those who fight you not for religion nor drove you out of your homes, dealing kindly and justly to them, that God loves المقسطين He says in Sura Luqman in parents who يجاهدان and trying every attempt to atone their son and make it polytheist instead of being a believer .. Says God Almighty: (albeit strive to involve me what you have no knowledge do not obey them and صاحبهما in the world known) even with an attempt to atone Repelling by God, and faith, with this to say "I do not obey them ," but " صاحبهما in the world kindly ."

This is what came of Islam , to be a righteous man papacy , although it neighbor , although Zlmah . . Though Jfuah . . This is like morals : it reaches from Qtek, and making those who prevented you , and give of Ahramk , and forgive those who wronged you, and to improve offended you. This is in the general population , how in with wombs ? How can parents ?

There are some points that illustrate preferred parents:
First: it is obedience to God and His Messenger, peace be upon him , God said : ( And We have enjoined man parents charity ), and the Almighty said : ( and spent *** not to worship none but Him and parents kindness either they reach you have old age , one or both , do not say to them disrespect, nor تنهرهما say to them a word of generous and lower to them the wing of submission and humility through mercy, and say Lord has decreed that you worship none small ) and correct from Ibn Masood said he was asked the Prophet , peace be upon him any work best said faith in God and His Messenger, and honoring one 's parents .. Talk. And other verses and frequent conversations about it.
Second: The filial piety and respect for the cause of LED *** paradise as in Saheeh Muslim from Abu Hurayrah that the Prophet , peace be upon him , said in spite of , and in spite of , and in spite of said O Messenger of God said to realize his parents in old age one or both did not enter Paradise. Sahih Muslim.
Third: to be respected and to obey them cause for intimacy and love.
Fourth: to be respected and to obey them thanks to them because they are the reason you are in this world and also thanked her on تربيتك and your care Sgrk , God said: ( and thank me and your parents .. ).
Fifth: that the righteousness of the boy to his parents why because lb sons , God said (you any reward for good other than good ) .

Was the praise of God and generosity